WOW! Kuya RG & Kuya Bobot

WOW! Kuya RG & Kuya Bobot, thank you soooo much for going deep down and really understanding and taking the time to expound & give your much-needed wise advise for the single ladies.

Indeed, there's nothing to be ashamed of about our longing. It's just a shame though that others make fun of our situation without being sensitive to how we really feel.

You said something about making friends...sometimes I am wary/hesitant to make friends with the opposite sex because they tend to misinterpret your kindness (genuine kindness, not flirting) or simply your interest in knowing them as a person. Even people who are not involved tend to misinterpret your action as well. They seem to think you are DESPERATE.

When I was a new Christian at Cityland, I had an officemate who is also a Christian and she really takes time to "beautify" herself. I really struggled inside because I thought being a Christian means simplicity and it's vanity for me at that time for one to "beautify" herself :). Thank God, it was short-lived! Someone corrected me on that thought :) and now I am more convinced that I should beautify myself outside as my gratitude for the love, joy and all the blessings that God has given me. In effect that would be an avenue for others to also notice what/who makes me attractive. :). You also made my eyes opened to the reality that even Christian men love attractive women. Haayyyy...maong mag-explore na jud ko more ani kung unsay angay sa ako without feeling guilty nga magpa-guapa ko, hehehe.

I still have a lot to express but langayan kaayo ko mag-ponder to put my words into writing and besides nagdagan ang oras sa internet cafe :). One thing I have to say, Kuya Bobot & Kuya RG, I truly appreciate everything that you have written and the effort as well. It only means that you truly care for us :) and for that, THANK YOU! Kung makapalit nako ug notebook, I will read your message again and again to remind myself not just to WAIT but to take responsibility to find not MR. RIGHT but MR. ENOUGH, for he is good enough! :)

Kuya Bot, when and where will you talk about this topic? Please give my regards to Ate Jean and kindly ask her to text me about the details. Or mana ba? :)