space that men use

joke lang jud na Boy? basin may sagol tinuod he he he..

seriously, i am beginning to see that the issue could be that the space that men use and even enjoy in pursuing a romantic relationship is not as open or wide as that for the women. I struggle with the thought that if the man can have the freedom (no implications, no consequences) to declare his interest to the woman (for the woman to respond yes, no, unya na lang, maybe, let's pray), why is this kind of freedom not "available" to the woman? basin available ni pero wa lang gi-avail. why man? (or why woman?) :)