"hunter" prays for the "prey

Hala Bing ...belated happy birthday diay ......kani laging mag tuhiktuhik lang sa emails...ma ulahi ba kita permi.

Yeah, its double edged. I was both joking and serious with my comment that the Navs is a male dominated world, or so it seems. But I am confident that the Navs women will be wiser to not rise up in arms to disprove this point. They dont have too. All too often, the consistent pattern I see among Nav couples is that it is the wives who wield real power behind the scenes. Kuya Bobot and Kuya R.G can attest to that.

As to your query below, I honestly think that women have as much right as men to express themselves. However, there are social rules or etiquettes that govern human relations and it is beyond decency ( or nature) for women to be aggressive. The courtship dynamics is that men woo to curry the woman's affections, and the woman plays coy, tests the water and makes a decision ( he loves me, he loves me not - that kind of decision. Harharhar). You see a lot of that in nature but I meant no allusion to Darwinism for we are not descended from the apes.

But the more compelling reason, better yet, guess, is that men are born "hunters" ....which logically makes women "the hunted". Reversing the rule and the role disrupts social order. Have you heard of "alpha women"? Alpha-male yes, but not alpa-women. And when the "hunter" becomes "the hunted", oh how men hates it.

So, where is the point of redemption for women to be free to choose their mates? Following the hunter-hunted roles, it is for women to leave trails behind for hunting to prosper. Get the drift?

I think, without breaking the rules on decency, a woman who is attracted to a prospect should "leave her trails" - that means to create every opportunity for Godly friendship to blossom. And it is there where courtship begins: a discovery of self and the pursuit for the significant other.

After all is said, a Godly "hunter" prays for the "prey".

Cheers // Buboy