wild idea

ok r.g. here is my wild idea. this is a risky business but i'll try
to put them into words. in the grand scheme, i would say it is
perfectly acceptable for a woman to do the first move as God leads
her. In fact, it is commendable! However, culturally, because this
is not common and also there is a negative string attached to ladies
nga mag-una una maulaw na lang ang mga girls to do the move
especially sa pinas. ﷯﷯
i witnessed relationships and marriages nga ang girl ang nag
initiate. there is something special to them and the Lord blessed
them. in fact, i see a better dynamics:) i learned much about this
from a guy in the small group i was leading not long ago. he told me
that usually, it's the woman who come to him first and eventually,
the right woman came along through our sports ministry and now they
are serving in the couples ministry. there are men who are not
comfortable making the first move and there are women who are
assertive enough to express their feelings. well, writing this seems
like i am lecturing to myself also. sayon sulti-on but not easy to
do. but maybe after this wild idea, a wild move would be good:) ﷯﷯
so.. girls, let's get ready..we need to know what we want and where
to find them. there's plenty around and it will be like a treasure
hunting with the Lord:) or a multiple choice hehehe..
btw, unya pa man ta to ug 65 ako edad my plan to get married pero
now i just don't know:) ruby