I, not the Lord,

Dear Single Ladies and Gentlemen here in CebuNavs,
I have chat to some ladies and gentlemen and the issue of getting married is a real longing, that should also be discussed among us. We who are married can give wisdom to them.
It's interesting that when Paul was talking about marriage to the Corinthians he used two types of wisdom, one from the command of God and the other from his own wisdom look at the two verses below..
Co 7:10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord..,1Co 7:12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say...
So I am here on the basis of "I, not the Lord, say..." hehehehe... I have many thing to say on single ladies kay mas lisod man sa single ladies to find mr right..Many godly ladies are just literally waiting without doing anything for the right man to come. But I think we should also view "getting married" or "finding the right man" as partnership bet us and God. If you look at the Bible, God always loves to partner with man, even to the most critical task of finding His people whom he predistined to be with Him in heaven. I think Single ladies, your perspective will change if you will view it as "Partership", same as ministry, an offshoot of our close relationship with God. That means "you have something to do" other than just waiting. Here's my piece of advice "Make yourself BEAUTIFUL from inside out." being beuatiful inside is the result of your relationship with God, but being beautiful outside is your responsibility. It is important mga igsoon to take this responsibility because bisan kinsa nga HOLY MAN who is still in flesh, is also looking not only for inner beauty but also (or much so) for outer beauty. Now I want to make this very very clear, because if you follow my advice you might go to the other extreme of flirting or pa duduing which is not proper culturally (Filipino), ang sa ako is only up to "making yourself beautiful" Now you may say di man ko guapa unsaaon man ni ron... hehehehe... my personal opinion is everyone has physical beauty in them, it is a matter of exploring them, sa ako, beauty comes out if makit-an nimo unsay "angayan nimo", so it would be fun for you to explore it with a help of your friends. "Don't flirt just make yourself beautiful"...hehehehe.
For gentlemen out there, I know that most of us are attracted first physically...but do not be decieved...go deep into the heart for you to see the inner beauty of a girl... with that you also have a job to do in parnership with God in finding the right girl for you... Since inner beauty is deep inside, you will not notice it unless you dig.. developing good general friendship with many single ladies is the key...ug tungod sa akong bias (again, I not the Lord.. hehehe), ayaw na mo palayo, naa na sa atong duol... there are so many beautiful ladies in the Navs hehehehehe. Common guys... open your eyes wide and clear...hehehe

RG